பெண் - Woman

 பெண்

Who is a Woman? 

    A Baby 

    A Girl 

    A Sister 

    A Lover

     A  Wife 

    A Mother 

And so on, but is this what a woman is? People in society give us a tagline for women from the above mentions and want us to go as per it and what if we don't wanna go as per their schedule or plan they see us as girls who don't want their life to be good is that what life of a girl is?  why would a girl think that her life should be bad? A woman can also make their decision on her own they don't want anyone to come into it. 

There is always trouble and hurt in the pathway of life of a woman even to get to the title of woman a girl needs to cross a lot of hurdles. We still need to fight for GENDER EQUALITY in the 21st century in some places. People treat us as a child who cannot find their path even when we reach the age and have enough maturity and knowledge. Every girl has a child inside her just because she shows her inner child outside does not mean she is unfit to lead her own life. 

   A woman has elegance in her face, bringing peace to the home she lives in and the home she goes in. Women only have a stable home once they reach the age of marriage after marriage they eventually shift their house even sometimes the house she go in does not value them. It's not like they should be devoted to their husbands it's all about equality in the relationship i am not mentioning that wives should not listen to their husbands they should listen but before listening to them listen to your own heart first and then react further if it makes you worried confront the opposite gender, if that makes you sad confront them just don't blindly listen to them.  APPRECIATION and RESPECT are the main keys that are lost in a woman's life they keep on searching for it yet they don't get it. Now, many things have changed and people started to give up the keys that have been lost. I'm proud that the new gen has changed and I'm a part of it. ROMBA SANDOSAM YAA! 

Are we missing something? 

Yes, I guess the educated generation has been changed but what about the generation that does not have education and women are still treated in a bad way. I know some people will scream in my inbox like DONT TALK ABOUT THE PASS JUST SEE THE PRESENT!!!!!, But even the present has some people like this in it and why don't we talk about them?? I am too confused about it why?? 

Because the past generation does not know about confronting in my opinion this is why people in the past had issues with proper guidance they could have been confronted with. I am really proud of the current generation and they can bring up their upcoming best outcome. 

3 AM Thoughts

 3 AM THOUGHTS 

NIHAO! Everyone let's talk about the 3 a.m. thoughts a person can get. A person who gets sad is not the saddest a person who gets happy is not the happiest person we are all somewhere between happy and sad a mid-range of life (Irukira yidam theriyama iruntitu poiranu). Have you ever wondered who can be the happiest person or who is the happiest person (yaru da neega enga irukiga)? A life that is created by someone and has settled down to be yours, which can be twisted and turned only by your own actions. I have always heard my dad say "Nothing is Permanent" like even happiness and sadness are not permanent but food without salt is not what we want. But why do we get these types of thoughts at a time when ghosts love to roam. It's all connected to the part of life paths where happiness doesn't come with a pang of sadness, sadness doesn't come with depression, depression brings anxiety where it all leads to some creepy 3 a.m. thoughts. The thoughts might be deep the senses might be deep but remember we all are in the same boat the next morning where people love to scold you in the traffic signals, where the HR is not interested in the hike, where the professor asks you a question in the middle of a class, where math teacher calls you up to solve a sum on the board. It's like an adventure where Dora goes miles and miles away from home just to explore? NAH she moves around so she can be more experienced with people and get lost in her thoughts.

What do I think about 3 a.m. thoughts?

     Actually, I feel very good about the 3 a.m thoughts it really gives you a kick in your ass by your past behaviors which cannot be changed, and helps us not to do it again in your lifetime. Why do we have it? STRESS, ANXIETY, DEPRESSION. I recently came across the movie Appendage which is a must-watch movie. The lead character has gone through a depression which is very severe where the appendage is born inside her which gives her acusition about her own life. Throughout the movie I learned a lesson "Controlling or Managing your emotions you can come past anything". 

How to Overcome it? How did I do it? 

    Every person is unique in their own way, and every person has their own character, Not every person can be the same god has created everyone with his special magic spell like a jadoo. I did a very simple trick which my Grandma gave. It's very simple we would have done it many many years ago. Milk was the one that helped me to sleep really well warm milk has it. I can't say that it works for everyone who suffers from insomnia but I gave it a try even though I'm typing it at 2:00 AM with warm milk Yeah! you guessed it right it helped me but not a lot. I sleep sometimes only when I have peace of mind wait!!! I guess I'm going to topic 😂😜Why do I do it again!. Peace of mind is when I'm free from all my work, assignments, exams, career,  

     

    

    

Life with Boomer's

 Life with Boomer's 

Let's talk about boomers in the 21st century where people are very busy in their day-to-day lives but still, some people are left out in as boomers. Where are you guys even from? (MIND VOICE:Romba nerama nalavan maariyea pesitu irunthiyea da😑) and why do you people wanna poke your nose in our business? Is it even a time pass for you? They stay in our lives as invisible people and appear when problems appear. Boomers are like cups and saucers they come along with the cup(problems) saucer(boomers) why are you guys even alive hufff😥. They come to us with random questions like "What do you do for a living" or "What do you study" Even common questions from them will shake our minds for a bit. When we answer "I Study Science" You can see the immediate regret in their face when you say Science but in a different scenario "I Study Arts " FINISH! (MIND VOICE: Solli mudinchu😬) 

Their bits of Advice: 

 It starts with your group in 11th and they will fix you into a scenario that is only related to their life. At the age of 16 students have to select a group for their further studies in schools. They will come up with a random life and that ends up your life full of confusion which is mostly dumb. Boomers are also known as confusion makers they certainly show up in our lives on a random day and take away our future plans in half an hour. Talking to boomers is fun and frustrating. Most people believe in "Only once we live "  and Yeah!  they live one life and try to change 100 lives with their piece of advice. And the important part here is we can't guess the boomers at first sight when we see them. But without Boomers life feels a little bit note it Just a little bit. Forget it Bommers are more fun when we enjoy it and more frustrating when we overthink it. It's all up to our minds. Talking about them is also satisfying though😂😈

Thank you! 

Yafiyah Zenath .Y

single child feelings

 Single child feelings

          

Outline 

       1) why single child?

        2) how people feel about single child?

         3) how to make yourself boostup?

           4) let's explore alone? 

1) why single child? 

         People mostly choose single child due to financial and for many other reasons in their life. People don't always wish to have single child it's their situation they go through. Parents cannot think any harm to their children. But they should also know the feelings of their own child what he/she is going through.

 2) How people feel about single child?

            " I wish i had a sibling" cried every single child once in theri life time siblings are someone who can understand a feeling of the other sibling. We can't express it in words of having an siblings. Siblings are more than a family.

3) how to make yourself boostup?

          Take notes or share your problems to a diary. It can't give us an solution but it can always help us.

           Talk in the face of mirror no other person than yourself can understand you and talking alone is not an mental issues when you have more pressure.

4) let's explore alone? 

         We have mostly spending our life time alone so what is wrong with exploring alone . By being a single child we have come through everything alone so why can't we explore our life alone. Being alone is not by choice it's more than anything in the world .